I love engagement sessions for so many reasons!
Engagement sessions give me a chance to get to know a couple before their wedding day. Together we all get a feel for what works and what doesn’t – if you’re the types of people who’ll climb trees and splash barefoot in puddles, or if you’re more the type of people who would rather just relax with each other quietly. And that gives me the knowledge I need to create images of you on your wedding day that really reflect who YOU are – individually and as a couple.
More importantly, though, an engagement session lets you get to know me. Being on the business end of a camera can be kind of intimidating, and especially for someone who has never worked with a professional photographer before. (And let’s be honest – getting your mug shot in the yearbook or for a passport photo doesn’t really count!) You don’t know what you might be asked to do or how the photographer acts when she is working. Everyone has heard horror stories about grumpy photographers, so an engagement session is a perfect opportunity to see exactly how I relate to you (and by extension, will relate to your family and friends).
Once we’ve worked together, you can relax and look forward to your wedding day portraits knowing more of what to expect, instead of being edgy about them (in addition to all the other nervous-making things you’ll deal with on your wedding day). You’ll know how I’m going to pose you (or not pose you). You’ll have a better idea of what I mean if I give you direction. And you won’t be nearly as uncomfortable if I want to straighten a boutonniere or fix a loose strand of hair if I’m not a complete stranger touching your hair or clothing.
An engagement session is also a good opportunity to get photos of each of you individually as well, not just for each other, but for your parents and relatives who might want a more casual photo in addition to a wedding day portrait. Besides, there are some pretty awesome things you can do with engagement photos – everything from save-the-date cards, to signature books, to online cards for your guests.
For that reason I include an engagement session with every coverage I do. They’re my gift to you; I don’t charge extra for them and I include the high resolution images with your wedding files as well. I’d much rather take the extra time to do an engagement session and get to know you.
So there you have it … my advice and thoughts on engagement photos is – quite simply – don’t skip them. They’re very much worth the time!